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A Japanese Honeymoon

October 31, 2026

Our long-planned honeymoon trip to Japan was an absolute smash hit. All of the advanced planning helped make things smoothly. (You can read the almost final itenerary document here if you wish. It was developed using both this blog, lots of travel experience, and help from Claude which was really insightful when it came to logistics.)

This was an experience of a lifetime, filled with shared sights and adventures, quiet time, full days of travel, great food and relaxed cocktails. Our mission was high art in every place.  We succeeded.

Here is a chronological listing of blog posts.

The Peninsula Tokyo: Honeymoon Bookends

Hakone: Hakone Gora Karaku

Takamatsu (and Naoshima): Hanajukai 夕凪の湯HOTEL 花樹海

Arimasansoh Goshobessho: Perfection in Arima, Japan

The Thousand Kyoto: Respite from the Tourist Hoards

The Peninsula Tokyo: Honeymoon Bookends

Topping the Arimasansoh stop is not easy, especially give the entirely different world that Kyoto represents.  One Japanese acquaintance called it “Disney without tickets,” which honestly seems pretty accurate.  And it was hot (seriously, 82 degrees one day and very humid).  And threatening rain but never quite getting around to it.  We expected Fall, so this was a bit of a surprise.

However, the rules state that you MUST go to Kyoto when you visit Japan.  So here we are.   Anyway, if you are going to spend some time in Kyoto, the Thousand is an excellent base of operations.

We said goodbye to Arima and its bridge(?!) and hopped in our comfortable hired car for a ride to Kyoto.

No really, this bridge is famous.

This was my view for the hour or so we drove out of the mountains and into the city.

And then, boom, we arrived at The Thousand to be greeted with a super efficient checkin system, our bags’ perfect timing on arrival (literally during our checkin), and a room ready WAY early.  Though we had requested a Japanese terrace suite on the 9th floor, we were assigned a western terrace suit on the 8th (room 801).  We decided not to look a gift horse in the mouth and go with the room that was ready.

Room 801 is modern, spacious, and really a beautiful place to camp out.  We unpacked and reacquainted ourselves with our long lost huge suitcases (by now filled with as much dirty stuff as clean).

The bedroom door to the suite is ingenious.  I want to copy it.

Both of those “walls” close with two doors that meet at 90 degrees.  Really clever pocket design.

But the terrace is the best part…  Overlooking the train station, and situated in the heat of Kyoto, you might think we would not use the terrace.  But we were out there a bunch.  Maybe we missed Arima.

We have not said much about Japanese toilets on this trip.  But they are still very ridiculous, with many little motors, automated systems, buit in sensors, little warm water squirters…and some rules.  There are lots of rules in Japan making things go smoothly…especially when it comes to toilets.

Part of the jet lag on return involves low-tech toilet adjustment.  WHAT?  I have to reach all the way down and move the toilet seat by hand?!  How primitive!  Then again, when the toilet is all by itself using the fax machine to send messages to its friends, you do wonder what it is thinking.

This is the control bar.  There are many different UI designs for this…all entirely different from one another.

Enough about toilets.  There was a matcha kit in the room too.  So we made matcha.

And we chilled on the patio.

Oh, almost forgot the main thing.  The shower is fantastic and has its own large room devoted to it with a built in bathtub that also serves as a bench.

Lets just say “optimal.”

So what to do on a so-called “rainy afternoon” in Kytoto before a very fancy dinner (if you are keeping track, that will make two incredible dinners in a row)?

Snag a cab over to Sanjūsangen-dō (“Lets Go!” said the very excited cab boy), and have him wait.  You can find this tree.  More bits here.

Then move on into the city to the Issey Miyake flagship temple.

Swing into town to do your duty as a tik-tok influencer at the hipster coffee house. Stop by and start the Hello Kitty quest.

And then return to base in time for a leisurely shower and a cab right to an incredible dinner at Pontocho Misoguigawa 禊川 and a rainy cocktail at K36.

It was a nice jolt back onto the tourist ride.

The next morning we hired an early cab to arrive precisely at 9am at Shōden-ji, doing our Bowie pilgrimage.  This was an excellent side trip.

And then right back into the heart of town and the human maelstrom at Kyoto City KYOCERA where the very popular Zen and Ghibli show was on.  It was a zoo. About the exact opposite of a Zen rock garden all by ourselves.

Which led to some Udon and a quick refactoring (and planned withdrawal) to chill on our terrace, cool off, and generally try to see only eachother for a while.

We dropped by Jazz Spot Yamatoya for an early cocktail before dinner.

And listened to some excellent jazz on vinyl.

Then cabbed to the top of the already “thickening” Pontocho Alley for a look at the restaurant scene turning on.  We stopped in for a bad drink and a great time at Stardust with a bunch of foreigners.

And then it was off on a leisurely stroll to tempura dinner at Gion Fuji.  Romey was a bit on the reluctant side at first, but dinner was light and delicious and only involved a few crazy things they wanted us to stick in our mouths.  The sake was particularly good.

From this…

To this…

Delish.

We returned to the hotel just in time for the lobby light show.

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Leaving only half a day in Kyoto the next morning before our trip back to Tokyo and eventually home.  We made an early morning expedition to Fushimi Inari Taisha and a nice Australian style brekkie at Vermillion (where we opened the place and secured a great table by the mosquito pond).

We caught a willing Uber back to The Thousand, showered, finished packing up our train bags, and it was back to Tokyo in time for afternoon tea.

Five showerheads for The Thousand even though they screwed up the room category on us.  They were gracious hosts in a beautiful modern place.

 

The morning after our perfect day on Naoshima came early. Romey was not in the mood for Japanese breakfast again, so we uncovered Little Mermaid (or Ritorumameidotakamatsuekiten リトルマーメイド高松駅店) which served up Danish breakfast in all of its carbohydrate glory. We paid a visit there before hitting the train and heading to Kobe, where we picked up a taxi to Arimasansoh Goshobessho.

I got a special Autumn edition bento at the train station department store just as they opened.

Even the arrival was meaningful as the taxi drove us right past the entrance…discrete and hidden behind a tall wall right on the road. The staff rushed to unload us, and though we were early, finalized our villa as we got permission to eat the bento we had no time for on the train.

We had our lunch by the huge window in the great room. Slowly nature sank back in.

And then we were escorted the exquisite villa with the “birds nest” onsen where we were to spend the night. The space was outstanding. Hands down the best accommodations of the trip.

The bathroom annex included an onsen shower, the birds nest onsen itself (“golden” being a euphemism for muddy), a sauna, and a dressing area with sinks.

The onsen was very cool indeed. We took a soak.

Goshobessho is filled with art and juxtaposed with Portugal in interesting ways. This was reflected in the food as well.

Even the little “stuff bag” for carrying around your personal items between baths was cool.

After a luxurious and fun afternoon, we headed across the compound to the best kaiseki rykan dinner of the trip. Our server Aoi (あおい is a Japanese word that can mean both “blue” and “green,” depending on the context. It is also a common unisex name in Japan, with various meanings based on the kanji used) was delightful, had some quirky but excellent youtube infected English, and was a sake sommelier who had just passed her exams. We asked for just the right thing when we requested a sake pairing. Exceptional.

In this case the food was even more delicious than it looked, and it looked superb.

The chopstick holders came with intentional design.

This sake is super special. Each came with its own beautiful glassware or pottery

The menu

A poem on the wall says in perfect Portuguese melancholia:

Of Myself

I watch myself burning old letters and contemplate the sad smoke that rises…
This sadness is not for you, who have already passed by.
There is nothing in me.
I am sad with myself for having no sadness.

We were the opposite of sad about dinner, and caused a minor kitchen kerfuffle when we requested to speak to the chef and give him our highest compliments.

And then whiskey and another soak before bed.

There was more magic in store the next morning before we departed. We spent some time exploring the small but beautiful compound.

Morning soak and a leaf trapped in falling. Such peace.

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Breakfast backdrop. The architecture incorporates the outside.

Art

Grounds

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Looking up at the bird’s nest.

And then it was off to reacquaint ourselves with the tourist hordes in Kyoto in a chartered car. The drive was just over an hour.

Bye now. Stay cool.

Five showerheads and a bubble of everlasting peace for the Arimasansoh Goshobessho. We sincerely can’t wait to return.

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We start where we left off—on the big travel day, 2 shinkansen trains and a marine liner on our way from Hakone to Takamatsu (which was as close to Naishima as we could stay). Here is the Seto Bridge at sunset from the Marine Liner panorama car (seats 1CD).

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Our taxi ride up the hill from the station co-occurred with a blazing sunset.

Hanajukai is a very Japanese, very regional, and really very awesome. We were welcomed with not much English, and accommodated with humor, grace, and great attention to detail. The extended check-in process involved procuring an all day taxi for Naoshima, working out how and when to route our luggage to Kyoto, and picking meal times. The taxi idea was a new one (hire it all day and take it across on the ferry). We did some laughing.  Ultimately, everything came off without a hitch.

We were assigned a Japanese room (108) on the bottom floor corner with a private onsen on the terrace. The room smelled almost edibly of tatami mats. The furnishings had no legs.  The security door was made of paper.

I took a quick travel-recovery soak before dinner. This is something NPS should adopt at home.

We each donned a Yukata and proceeded to the best local kaiseki so far this trip. Beat Hakone hands down. Udon, special dispensation for Romey. Fish poached on the spot.  Here’s what we had…

Local sake.

Honestly delicious. And then it was back to our futon pods on the floor. (After two nights of this, we were ready for a western bed again.)

I was up with the sun again for a very early onsen.

After we deciphered the elevator instructions, we headed up for a very early breakfast on our Naoshima adventure. We met the taxi at 7:20.

Morning view from the coffee area.

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Naoshima! See the many Naoshima entries: Taxi, ferry, Go’o shrine, chichu, yellow pumpkin, red pumpkin, and sunset ferry.

About the only wrinkle in our Takjamatsu visit came after a magical sunset ferry back to town.  We requested a dropoff at Honetsukidori Ikkaku.  In retrospect we would never do that again. There are not many unwelcoming assholes in Japan, but we managed to  find some.  It became a ramen emergency.

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Followed by a quest to break the little toy machine racket.


A late night onsen saved the day.

Up with the sun again.

Five showerheads for this gem of a hotel Hanajukai. Friendly staff, authentic and delicious local delicacies, beautiful rooms and a perfect onsen.  This made the heart of our honeymoon beat strong.

The Peninsula hotel is beautiful and turns out to be a better place to start a trip to Japan than to end one.  But we are getting way ahead of ourselves.

First, an obligatory 777-200 pod shot.

Our arrival from Haneda was chaotic. Small airport, too many planes at once, customs lines crisscrossing, lots of people slipping between the cracks. Plus it was hot and stuffy. But the second that we emerged from Customs chaos, a Peninsula runner was there to greet us. We took a quick side trip to get cash from a 7-11 ATM and two Suica cards to use on trains, and then it was off to meet our loquacious driver.

The road signs were a hint of cultural differences to come.

The drive is very quick and particularly relaxing in a Toyota Century (built for salarymen at the top of the capitalist food chain). We were greeted by a swarm of at least 15 staff members who whisked away our luggage as we ourselves were whisked directly to room 1308. The checkin process was a bit overly thorough and dramatic…though we were ultimately left to shower and order some ramen from room service with zero lines.

There was honeymoon champagne and a nice note from the staff.

The suite with a city view was as nicely appointed as it was laid out.

No sign of plastic in the bathroom.

And a closet/dressing room that is second to none.

Romey appreciated the vegetable ramen option so much that she wanted it again on our second stay.

After dinner, we took the elevator up to the very purple and very ’90s Peter the bar. The view was as OK as the cocktails were overpriced.

The Peninsula is a particularly great place to use as a base of operations in Tokyo because it has metro access in the basement, and is an easy walk to Ginza.

We took the metro to Meiji-Jingu first thing in the morning after breakfast on day 1. Romey found the best organic breakfast in Japan right off the bat.  The metro was very silent and orderly even at rush hour.

We did some jean shopping in Tokyo before lunch…at the wrong place that turned out to be the very much right place.

And had an excellent lunch at Yanmo.

Next up was a cab to Azabudai Hills to experience the teamlab borderless light extravaganza. Though there were really way too many people, we would do it again.

And then it was up to the Mori tower (not the JR Mori Tower, mind you) to watch the sun set over Tokyo and the red lights blink on.

This left us with enough time to go to the right jeans shop (which, as you already learned, was the wrong choice) to conjur up some personalized denim.

We returned exhausted enough to pick up some Chinese at Joe’s Shanghai New York.

The next morning we headed to Ginza 6 at its opening bell. Quite the scene.

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And then it was off to the rest of our adventure: Hakone, Takamatsu, Naoshima, Arima, and Kyoto.

—< end part one >—

—< start part two >—

We returned to the peninsula on our way out of Japan, arriving by anonymous taxi.

Lets just say that our greeting for the second arrival was entirely different. We were not whisked anywhere, but stood in line to be “upgraded” to a suite in the category we had already paid for (LOL). It seems the Peninsula mask slips a bit when you show up twice in one week by train station taxi.

We spent the last two nights in 1620 with a view of the Imperial Palace park (and its excellent sunset). We enjoyed spreading out (after requesting a nice set of hangars to use)…situation assessment was in order.

We definitely recommend the upgrade by money route.

Of course, it was us…so here is what high disorder looks like.

After arrival two, we headed out to see Zenkō-ji and the Omatesando neighborhood. We were on a quest for PJs and underwear.

To complete her quest, Romey joined an underground Tokyo underwear gang at Uniqlo.

And we had an outstanding, much-needed break at Bar Radio. Dark and quiet with a sophisticated clientele, Bar Radio is everything that Peter the bar is not.

More vegetarian ramen was on the agenda for our 9pm dinner.  Guess whose biological clocks were completely synced?

Our last day in Japan was punctuated by high tourism. We started early at the Tokyo tourist mecca…the Tsukiji Outer Market. Get there before 9am (if you get there at all)! Somehow we stayed one step ahead of the tourist hordes all day.

By 9am, we had walked over to Hamarikyu Gardens for some matcha in the teahouse.  Just as we left, 2 packed buses of tourists were unloading.

We bought some Hello Kitty stuff (waiting with a small group for the 11am opening ON THE DOT), and some heart things at Comme des Garçons.

And after a short respite at the hotel to freshen up it was off to fancy and very very early sushi dinner at Ginza Kyūbey Ginza Honten 銀座久兵衛 銀座 本店.

Our tourist-driven day was punctuated with a forgettable visit to Tender bar (skip it), and a quick hit to Don Quijote and the lights at Akihabara.

We cabbed home—touristed entirely out. Romey was in no mood for the purple neon of Peter the bar—and neither was I.

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The next morning, it was last licks for the leisurely organic breakfast during which we decided to swing up to Sensō-ji temple on a quest to find Astro Boy and an off-season Yukata.

We took the very very crowded Ginza line back to the Peninsula (well sort of) and snagged a cab after exiting the wrong exit (thanks Claude).

Final packing time was upon us.

Our packing was coming along when we discovered that we needed a new suitcase to get everything home. So we went across the street to Proteca and picked up a new bag.

And then it was time to depart Japan.  Arigatō gozaimasu!  One great honeymoon.

Five shower heads and an upgrade you paid for yourself for the Peninsula Tokyo. (Things are always better when the mask stays in place.)

Raffles Boston

August 4, 2026

It’s not Singapore, of course, but there really is a Raffles in Boston. Last time we were in town for David Byrne, we stopped in for a very crowded drink at the upstairs speakeasy.

Of course, we know all about the real Raffles…and the Singapore Sling. It’s pretty hilarious to see this transplanted to Boston. But why not?! Can you say “wicked Sling???”

Oopstock brings us here.

We are in 1007. This, they tell us, is an upgrade from our requested suite. We’re all for that kind of thing. Thanks y’all.

Extra bathroom.

Not one iota of plastic, of course. And shower pressure that will blow your hair plugs right out of your scalp…assuming you have some.

So how goes it Raffles? It goes, as Sammy would say, pretty not bad. The space is excellent and the staff is top notch. But there are some things that could use some attention and maybe refactoring.

1007 could use some closet space. And engineering needs to fix the drapery. The real problem is inscrutable electronic controls. How do you set the AC to anything less than hurricane? Who knows? And lights? Just press buttons randomly until something happens. About the only other place with these kinds of UI electricity challenges is the College Hotel in Amsterdam.

Greeted with a personal note and a cocktail. Very nice touch. And the Butler thing is actually great. Our man Thomas was hugely helpful and made our visit noticeably better.

Bottom line? Excellent staff (and attention to staff development as well—which we witnessed while working in the libary) but some physical plant work required.

FWIW, the spa is apparently great. Go do that. Ask for Paula. (Side note: if you would like to buy some house perfume and then fly. LOL. Good luck with that. Hotel? Travel size for flyers is pretty much mandatory.)

Oh, and the Long Bar space? Lets upgrade that breakfast menu. Great bar, though. And excellent staff. (The menu could use a dose of the rest of the world…see the Chicago Peninsula.)

Blind Duck was empty and nice when we showed up at opening time. They served this sweet blue thing…

On rainy Monday, we spent some retail therapy time in Copley, the Pru, and then—when it cleared up—Newbury. Then we went to dinner at a very crowded and touristy Saltie Girl (recommended by the concierge/front desk). It’s overly Newbury. If you like being surrounded by people from out of town, this restaurant is for you!

Tuesday was La Padrona (where their computer texts you in Italian but does not like or even understand Italian answers). Delicious food—first time for pistachio lasagna. In the end, really quite poor space layout (our table was in a bizarre booth over in the margins) and staff that needs to be trained (they seem to forget who is paying). This is really more of a Boston issue than a La Padrona issue. Boston’s high end restaurant scene is no longer anywhere near the top edge in our experience. Time to get out of the little pond and see what the big fish are doing out there in the rest of the world, Boston.

Charlie’s is still a dive, but they raised their prices to make some margin. THey have grits!

The neighborhood (and exact apartment) of yore.

Five showerheads and some wicked new hairplugs for Raffles Boston (assuming you used to have those). We’ll be back.

Welp, Hilton has somehow taken over the best boutique hotel in the city
just like it did in Dublin. Sadly that means the Haven hotel is not really up to NPS standards. Alas.

On the other hand, Rotterdam is well worth a visit. Take a water taxi or seven.

Even if you let a Hilton know exactly when you will be arriving early, they will still NEVER be prepared.

Our room had a view…a long long view.

But even a suite here has such a bad layout that you can’t really nest. I mean, who puts a hot tub directly in the room? Or a sauna just across from the shower?

The sauna was actually fun to use.

And the bed was very comfortable.

But the “suite” was not.

Anyway, we were in Rotterdam, so that was a thing. Lots of amazing food: Zeezout was excellent, River Bar was delicious but not as welcoming. We also scoped out a bunch of little street places with mixed results.

The water is a main attraction.

We had a boat tour of the harbor since it was mandatory. It is a great way to experience the architecture.

The felix is definitely worth a visit.

Sunset at the NY hotel is worth a cocktail visit.

Rotterdam has a door to nowhere.

This is an ice cream cone. LOL.

Four showerheads for the Haven. Not our demographic. We will stay elsewhere when we return to Rotterdam.

Alexandria Hotel AKA

April 27, 2026

My friend Steph Vogel is at it again, rebooing a hotel. This time the crufty old Holiday Inn is getting repurposed as an AKA. We are not really the right demographic here as we are completely allergic to hamster cages. But lots of people getting married are the right demographic.

You can tell Steph is in charge because the staff is excellent and friendly and fun. But honestly we don’t believe Steph exists. He has been replaced by an LLM.

We were in a king deluxe with a lil balcony overlooking the late night wedding reception. 200-something. But hey, things are just as super slick as they are very rectangular.

We were properly greeted with a nice note and some delicious chocolates.

No sign of plastic in the bathroom which is a fine design.

Anyway. We were here for Florence and the Machine. Early dinner at The Magestic was great. Their cocktail progrem is top notch.


Midnight in Manhattan


Saffron Spirit

The show was fun (lots of pics and vids here).

Breakfast at Milk and Honey was just fine but nothing to write home about.

Four showerheads (which for a property like this is as high as it gets) for the AKA in Alexandria. Time for Steph to take over a Penisula in Tokyo!

Surely you’ve seen In Bruges?! Well we have, and we saw it again before the big birthday trip just for good measure. This is the very hotel featured in the movie.

In person, Relais Bourgondisch Cruyce Hotel is much more sedate and refined. No guns. No child murderers. No rooms full of crazy parties with cocaine and hookers. Darn.

We are actually on a scouting expedition for our return in July. Here’s what we learned.

Room 25 is the one we want. This time we were in 20, which is a very nice room that overlooks the canal but is a smidge small and has extremely limited closet space. So we looked at all the other rooms and 15 and 25 are the new targets.

Room 20 is the one on the right on the second floor where we stayed this time.

And what is that? Real klimt on the wall?? Yup. Lots of real pictures.

No wait really is that a Matisse?

Yes and in fact there is another on the wall in room 20.

We arrived so early that we simply dropped our bags and walked over to hop on a boat. We lulled Madou into a false sense of security by visting 5 previous times and never doing anything touristy. Bwahahaha!

This time he rode the boat.

We even made him climb the tower! But then he ran away, leaving us to explore on our own before returning with reinforcements for dinner.

What a view.

Euro-bathroom might kill you if you are a lawyer.

The breakfast room is very nice, but our quick hit did not include time for that. We were up way too early to take the direct train to Brussels airport (about 90 minutes and very easy) and fly home. The logistics of being in Bruge are excellent on that front.

Dinner at Republiek was great, especially with the entire gang. There was also mandatory ice cream.

All in all Bruges is very much a tourist town, smelling faintly of sugar and clogged up with lost people walking in circles. But it is worth a visit, if not just to drag Madou up the tower.

Four showerheads for Relais Bourgondisch Cruyce Hotel, a romantic little gem hidden among the droves.

Our train across Germany to Berlin was easy and fast, and we arrived at sunset. Our Berlin welcome involved drizzle. The Wilmina glowed with welcome.

Room 107 is a garden view room, spacious and clean, but configured for handicap access.

Each room in the hotel was adapted from some aspect of a historical women’s prison.

Though the shower was not plastic, it was not glass either. It was mostly too big.

What a property.

The bar is something to write home about. Absolute world class excellence with house made infusions and highly creative cocktails. Best hotel bar in Germany for sure.

Time for some reading by the fire.

The associated bakery.

We were only in Berlin for a short while, but we crammed in some great food, some excellent company, and some art. Seri Melayu was a nice reprive from brown food. The House of Small Wonder lives up to its reputation. Itarei was good but needs a service and wine overhaul.

Four showerheads leaning hard into five for the Wilmina. If we find the right room, the rating will improve.